Your emotions are probably in turmoil right now. You want him back, but something is telling you that things are over and he is gone. The trick at this stage is to get back to a normal state.

A normal state is relative. You need to get to a point that you can function without breaking into tears constantly. This is going to be difficult, but is very important. If you have to, just sit and have a good cry. Get it all out. The sooner you can get your emotions in check, the sooner you can work your magic on him.

Some people may tell you that you need to offer yourself to him at this point. They will reason that if he will have sex with you that he still cares for you and wants to repair the relationship. While you could get lucky and this be the case, but men work very differently from women and some will take the sex and go back to leaving you on the curb. As you can imagine this will easily wreck most people, so it needs to be avoided.

If you really want to know how to get your ex boyfriend back you need a full play book. These early steps are vital to start the process, but there is so much more you should be doing to get him back fast. For my recommended solution to getting him back, you should really look into The Magic of Making Up today.

At first I was macho and arrogant about the breakup. I told her I was fine without her, and we went our separate ways for a while. We had a kid at the time, so it made things very rough on me as she took our son with her. But I was a jerk, and she just kept her distance.

Eventually things started getting civil and we moved back in with each other. But do not be fooled, we were not together. I had made some strides, but I really did not know how to get my ex back in my life for good.

Things were okay for the next few months, but we were still just friends. We were comfortable living together, but not ready to renew our relationship. I read her signals wrong and thought this was the time to move on. Of course, I made a horrible move.

The ball was still in my court as she decided she wanted me back. This was simply jealousy in action. I loved this attention, but stayed with my new girlfriend. This relationship was short lived, and when it was over I found my ex had moved on herself. This was also jealousy in action.

Then I realized what I wanted in my life, but found months of emotional struggles and therapy to finally win my prize. I learned that tears just bring more tears and that yelling just brings more yelling. When I finally got my confidence back and started to branch out I got my sign. This sign came at a critical junction as well as I had started to grow close to another girl at the same time.

This time I made the decision that I live with to this day. I figured out how to get my ex back, but it took a lot more patience than I was really willing to give it at first. If you really want to get your ex back, and find your struggles are much like mine, you really should check out The Magic of Making Up. It has helped many couples regain the love in their lives.