Your emotions are probably in turmoil right now. You want him back, but something is telling you that things are over and he is gone. The trick at this stage is to get back to a normal state.

A normal state is relative. You need to get to a point that you can function without breaking into tears constantly. This is going to be difficult, but is very important. If you have to, just sit and have a good cry. Get it all out. The sooner you can get your emotions in check, the sooner you can work your magic on him.

Some people may tell you that you need to offer yourself to him at this point. They will reason that if he will have sex with you that he still cares for you and wants to repair the relationship. While you could get lucky and this be the case, but men work very differently from women and some will take the sex and go back to leaving you on the curb. As you can imagine this will easily wreck most people, so it needs to be avoided.

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